I am well aware that this post may dissolve into self-centered, defensive mess. But, it is worth the risk of appearing “arrogant,” “entitled,” and… what is the other insult my anonymous online haters have used? Oh, and “whiny.” If you read further, you cannot say that I did not warn you. I need to say this. And, if I actually end up publishing this on the blog, it means I think others can relate, or at least find something useful to take from my experiences.
Two years ago, I received some less-than-supportive feedback in response to my plan to finish my dissertation in a year, while going full-force on the academic job market. “It’s too much work.” “You’re dissertation will be ‘good,’ but not ‘great.'” “You won’t get a job.” “You won’t get a good job.” “You’re not ready.” “At least apply to dissertation fellowships, as well.” “You won’t have time to think.” I forged ahead anyhow; I could barely stand the thought of the upcoming year, let alone two more years. With encouragement from my partner, family, and friends, I decided against limiting my sights on the prized R1 path.
With a job offer in hand from the school I liked, that is near my family, and would celebrate my intellectual activism, I received less-than-supportive feedback again. “You’ll be come irrelevant.” “You’ll slow down in publishing.” “Sure, you’ll be happy, but…” “I would decline the offer in hopes for an interview at a [R1 school].” I forged ahead anyhow. With the encouragement of my partner, family, and friends, I accepted my current position.
After Year 1…
- I am content in my new job, finding support for my research, scholarship, and advocacy.
- I had two articles published, including one that was the lead article in the top journal of my subfield. (A second article has an R&R there.)
- I received a $3,000 internal teaching grant to develop a new course (Medical Sociology).
- I will be awarded the Best Dissertation Award from the ASA Section on Mental Health in August. (Not “good,” not “great,” but the “best!“)
- I was elected as a council member for the ASA Section on Sexualities, a three-year position.
- I was invited to join the editorial board for Contexts magazine, to begin a three-year term in January 2015.
Let me be clear — I would not have had as many choices regarding my career path without the support of my committee and the high quality of my training. But, I do worry they were a little too cautious, even pessimistic. In some ways, I feel I was underestimated. And, recognizing that means I cannot help to begin to wonder about other ways in which I was not pushed, or that I did not push myself, to go farther. If anything, it means recognizing others’ good intentions, considering their advice, but making sure to listen to my own gut and heart. In the end, it is my life; I have to be willing to live with, and learn from, the mistakes I make along the way. So far, I do not regret my decisions one bit.